February 2012
108 posts
Discerning Dom: Don't Stop
And as I go to get ready for work, I leave you with words from one of the wisest, most interesting Doms on the interwebs. This post is spot on! My appreciation of DD continues to grow. Oh, and I bolded the bit that encapsulates it all for me.
The secret fear of submissive girls is that the dom may not have the mental strength to keep going to the point where she can take no more. She’s afraid...
what you'll see and what you won't
His Darling Girl is primarily an outlet for me to write about my D/s dynamic with Mr. Hatton, the way we navigate the 24/7 nature of it, and as many posts as possible about our lovely fun extreme hot downright primal sexy time. My most sincere hope is that we can show D/s as something other than the cliche it can so often be.
However, I wanted to say something about images on His Darling Girl. I...
“When I submit, I do it from a place of strength. I decide whether my partner is...”
– Feminist Sex Submissive? How I Reconcile My Politics With My Sex Life | Sex & Relationships | AlterNet (via a-blog-called-everything)
Mr Hatton: **Trigger Warning** →
mrhatton:
This is a fairly long post and some of you may find the contents trigger emotions or feelings due to the nature of some of the issues discussed which include abuse.
Today I received an anonymous question respectfully asking about some of the details of the bad things that happened…
A lovely wise caring post by my Daddy.
Anonymous asked: Cher, does Mr. Hatton have protocol in place for you like times of high protocol and later periods of low protocol? How do you feel about ritual and formality and would you have more or less of it with Mr. Hatton. Thx Kells
Anonymous asked: Cher, Brava for your post. I am a survivor and your words went straight to my gut. My query for you is this: Do you believe women can heal better by confronting the demons head on like you have opposed to taking the upper hand and becoming more independent and dominant herself? I like being in control to assure that I will never be in that spot ever again. Any thoughts? Lee-Ann
redheadedsluttt asked: Thank you very, very much for that post about guilt. It's something I struggle with from time to time, there are some things I enjoy now that yeah, were used against me in the past, viciously I might add... so it's tricky to reconfigure. Because you start to wonder: Do I have the right to feel like a victim? And the answer is, to me, of course--it's all about consent, etc. I dunno,...
Anonymous asked: do you think that women with abuse in their history are drawn to bdsm and that most of the women with masters or daddys are victims who need help of a kind?
When safe words are ignored - Salon.com →
It is this sort of thing that brings me to write about some of the things I do.
It is because I know the beauty of a loving safe exciting, intense but secure D/s relationship that I talk about what I do.
It is because consensual non-consent, as razor’s edge as that can be, is not the same thing as non consent.
It is because I know there are those out there who ignore safe words, are...
masterpet asked: For what it's worth, I think Tumblr is perfectly fine for your style of expression. You have a wry wit, good humor, captivating introspection, and a style very much your own and sorely needed here. By being among the many blogs that talk/show BDSM & D/s related matters, you reach a broad audience and I think that matters. ~Pet
